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7/11/2025

Why I Make Art Even When I Don’t Feel Like It

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I feel the urge to create often, and I don’t always listen. I’m getting better at it, though. There’s always something calling for attention: laundry, dishes, answering emails, organizing the junk drawer. Procrastination knows how to disguise itself as productivity.

It’s that voice in the back of your head saying, “I really should do this first.” And suddenly, art gets bumped down the list. Again.


But here’s the thing about me, and maybe you too.
Every single time I make something, I feel better.


That doesn’t mean the thing I make is always beautiful, meaningful, or even close to what I imagined. But something shifts. Even when I’m not thrilled with what I’ve made, I learn something. And learning is a win, right? Especially when it helps us grow into better humans - kinder to others and to ourselves.


Making art is part of that kind of learning.

And some days, I surprise myself. I like what I make. So I keep going. 

​What's your favorite excuse for not making art? 


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Making art doesn't always start with inspiration. Sometimes it starts with just sitting down.

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Debbie Rowe
7/29/2025 04:32:30 pm

I have that exact same voice in my head too. There is always some kind of housework or chore that needs done. If it's not housework, it's my garden. Or it could be that my space is too small, or too cluttered, or I just don't know what to make and I'm not good enough at {whatever it is}. No matter what, it takes you away from doing something else. But that shouldn't be a bad thing! Art seems like a guilty pleasure, and it shouldn't.
I have to keep reminding myself that it's a part of me and I need to express it to feel the happiness it brings me.

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Mary A Telfer
7/29/2025 04:41:36 pm

Debbie, YES! It should not be a guilty pleasure. Did you know making art is scientifically proven to be good for your health? Do it. Thanks for commenting!

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    Mary is an artist and educator with more than 20 years of experience helping adults tap into their creativity. She created The Creative Collective, a supportive online art challenge membership where artists can explore, experiment, and discover their own voice. Mary’s passion for art goes hand in hand with her commitment to kindness and conscious living as a vegan and animal rights advocate. When she’s not making or teaching art, she’s probably dreaming about her future beach house studio or finding inspiration in everyday moments.

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    • the creative collective
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    • Art Camp for Grown-Ups
    • Pastel Class - Zoom
    • Pastel Class - Zoom
    • Pastel Class - Autumn Bliss
  • Free Instruction
    • Simplify Your Process: 5 Steps to Creating a Series of Art
    • FREE 7-Daily Art Challenges
    • FREE Vegan & Cruelty-Free Art Supply Guide
    • Watercolor Sky Instruction
  • Testimonials
  • portfolio
    • Nature Pastel Paintings
    • Pastel Paintings
    • rescued
    • abstracts
    • coupon queens
    • Too Confrontational for Amsterdam
    • revenge
    • the yellow wallpaper
    • ladies who lunch
    • non-literal self portraits
    • orange dove project - a radical pet-a-dogy
    • the bride's dilemma
    • flora paintings
  • Art is Hard. Make it Anyway.