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art is hard.
Make it anyway.

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7/9/2025

Art is Hard. Make it Anyway.

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So, another blog. Everyone seems to have one. Why am I doing this?

Honestly? Because I usually have more questions than answers, and a blog feels like a good place to explore those. It’s a place to wonder out loud, to make connections, and to say things that don’t always fit neatly in a social media post.


Also, I care about you. I care about your art, your creativity, your stuck places, your breakthroughs, and your half-finished pieces.


We’ve heard it over and over that making art is good for us. But it’s worth repeating, because it’s true. It's scientifically proven. 


What people don’t always talk about, though, is that art is hard.
People tend to imagine artists just playing all day, like kids with crayons, breezing through bursts of inspiration. Sometimes it’s easy. But more often, it’s not.


Art can be hard for all kinds of reasons. It takes time, trust, energy, vulnerability, and a weird amount of staring into space.


That’s what I want to talk about here.
What makes it hard.
What makes it worth it.
What helps us keep showing up.
What I’ve learned, and what I’m still figuring out.


Sometimes I’ll offer thoughts. Sometimes I’ll just ask questions and let them echo around.

And sometimes, we might find answers together.


I’d love for this to be a conversation, so feel free to leave a comment and share your own thoughts. If art feels hard for you, too, you’re in good company.

What makes art feel hard for you? Or what helps you keep going when it is?
I'd love to hear your thoughts - feel free to leave a comment below. Let’s talk about the real stuff.


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From my garden to your screen: a reminder that quiet things grow, even when no one’s watching. Like art. Like us.

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7 Comments
Cindi Gray
7/11/2025 11:52:44 am

Good morning, Mary,
there are times it feels hard as if I gravitate to the same thing. I have to clear my mind of expectations when that happens

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Mary A Telfer link
7/11/2025 12:00:11 pm

Good morning, Cindi!

You mean it feels hard because you tend to gravitate to the same thing? And when you clear your mind it feels easier?

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Cindi Gray
7/12/2025 06:21:39 pm

I think so. If I ground myself I am open to step into new supplies or new subjects.

Mary
7/12/2025 06:34:12 pm

That totally makes sense to me. I find meditating difficult but even if I sit in my backyard quietly drinking tea without my phone or a laptop ideas come to me and I feel so much better.

melody
7/12/2025 12:00:43 am

art is very intimidating for me, I feel like a poser. I feel as if my drafting skills are pretty basic, and my mastery of medium is minimal, and creative imagination lacking. When I see the work of others, people, I am always amazed at how creative overall their work seems to be whereas mine just feels very blah to me.What keeps me going?Art is a sanctuary for me, it’s a better place to be. When this world gets to be too unbearable for me,I create my own worlds in which to find peace and safety..

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Mary A Telfer
7/12/2025 05:15:12 pm

Melody, this is so surprising for me. You seem to be pretty confident in your work. I think your work is anything, but blah. And in pastel class you have such a good eye when helping others see their work.

I love how you use art as a sanctuary, though, and the idea of art being your own world.

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melody
7/14/2025 04:37:25 pm

thank you Mary for your thoughtful comments. I think the main issue for me is originality and mastery of medium. I’m happy at this point with my drawing skills, but I just feel there’s something missing from my paintings. I know we are all our own worst critics and that certainly is a problem I have.

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    Mary is an artist and educator with more than 20 years of experience helping adults tap into their creativity. She created The Creative Collective, a supportive online art challenge membership where artists can explore, experiment, and discover their own voice. Mary’s passion for art goes hand in hand with her commitment to kindness and conscious living as a vegan and animal rights advocate. When she’s not making or teaching art, she’s probably dreaming about her future beach house studio or finding inspiration in everyday moments.

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    • the creative collective
    • Ride the Wave
    • Art Camp for Grown-Ups
    • Pastel Class - Zoom
    • Pastel Class - Zoom
    • Pastel Class - Autumn Bliss
  • Free Instruction
    • Simplify Your Process: 5 Steps to Creating a Series of Art
    • FREE 7-Daily Art Challenges
    • FREE Vegan & Cruelty-Free Art Supply Guide
    • Watercolor Sky Instruction
  • Testimonials
  • portfolio
    • Nature Pastel Paintings
    • Pastel Paintings
    • rescued
    • abstracts
    • coupon queens
    • Too Confrontational for Amsterdam
    • revenge
    • the yellow wallpaper
    • ladies who lunch
    • non-literal self portraits
    • orange dove project - a radical pet-a-dogy
    • the bride's dilemma
    • flora paintings
  • Art is Hard. Make it Anyway.